My life has developed in such a way that the first time I failed to find my happiness. My husband and I separated when our little Mishenka was not yet a year old. After that, he did not really want to communicate with his son, and I did not insist.
When she met Seryozha in a common company, and he offered to meet her, she said everything honestly and immediately. That I have a child and he is in the first place for me. Fortunately, Serezha turned out to be very sensitive and understanding.
Three-year-old Mishenka immediately reached out to him and within a few months, he began to call him “dad”. However, Seryozha was only happy about this. After some time, he proposed to me and we became a real family.
But there was one snag in our family idyll. My husband’s mother disliked me and Mishenka from the very beginning. Svetlana Viktorovna was unhappy that her beloved son got a “divorced woman with a trailer”, and Misha himself seemed to piss her off.
Coming to visit us, Svetlana Viktorovna never even tried to talk to a child or treat him even with candy. It was as if I did not expect that the mother-in-law would accept the baby as her own grandson, but I hoped at least for a restrained attitude. It’s just that my child seemed to annoy her a lot for no particular reason.
And the kid could not understand in any way why he upsets his grandmother so much. The last straw was when, during the next visit, the mother-in-law began to scream at Misha. And it all happened because my son, trying to appease his grandmother, brought her his favorite car, and wanted to make a gift.
Svetlana Viktorovna threw the typewriter away and began to shout: “Get your child away from me! It’s not clear that I don’t want to see him?! I need real native grandchildren, not this one … ”Seryozha, who came running from the kitchen, witnessed this scene. Without saying a word, he put his mother out the door and asked us not to appear again.
I don’t even know what to do now. On the one hand, I am glad that my husband stood up for me and my son. But on the other hand, it is very difficult to realize that two close people quarreled because of me. Now Serezha and I are waiting for the baby to appear, but he doesn’t even want to hear about telling his mother about it. And I am very worried and have no idea what can be done in such a situation.
